This is a email i recieved last week. I blocked out a co-workers name
I am still shocked at what I saw in you today. I am furious. I gave you the benefit of the doubt thinking that your problems stemmed from losing a child, but now I think differently. I think you are just selfish and completely indifferent to anyone else around you. You are SO obsessed with getting attention that you have become twisted. Pardon me, but I've even seen you use Jackson as a vice for sympathy too. THAT is something you should be ashamed of. You know that the average person would hear you say "oh I lost my son, he was a stillborn" and they will instantly give you a stroke. But I've had the displeasure of working next to your for 5 months now and I've heard you say it to EVERYONE!!!! That sort of stuff should be reserved for your therapist, family, and social settings ONLY!!!! Not for every customer and co-worker you come across JUST for the purpose of a little instant attention!!!!!!You always play the "victim" of one thing or another and it's COMPLETELY played out with me. I know your game. You REFUSE to take control of ANYTHING that happens to you. You work harder at looking for ways to make people feel bad for you then you work at looking for ways to make yourself a better person in a better place. You just let everything happen to you, and if it's bad, then you play the "poor Tamilee" card. Pfft!!! I'm sick of it!I've mentioned to you how annoying it is that you abuse the amount of time you leave work and you reply "well, it's not my fault." BULLSHIT!!!! I have the perfect solution. For all the times you're lying....stop lying. For all the times you make bronchitis/pneumonia out of a dry cough...toughen up and drink some damn water. For all the times you feel a twinge of pain....think of all the athletes that play incredibly difficult sports on injuries FIFTY times more painful than the ones you bitch about. For all the times you claim you're having a personal family issue.....think of **** and how ridiculous it was for you to leave work today in comparison to what she's going through.You do not HAVE to be unhealthy. It's ridiculous how sick you play yourself up to be. You're FINE!!! GET OVER IT!!! Your doctor's notes are lame too.You do not HAVE to go to a licensed medical/psychological professional ever 12 seconds to make yourself healthy. All you have to do is cut the shit!!! Your number of trips to the ER are ridiculous in ever sense of the word "ridiculous"....they are completely worthy of ridicule! Did you ever consider that you are taking away a doctor from someone that ACTUALLY needs emergency medical assistance? Guess what Tami? I know a list of symptoms I can lie about too to get, oh let's say, antibiotics, pain meds, etc, etc, etc.....anyone can do it. When you come in the day after from these mini-catastrophes, acting healthy and strong. its pathetic. I gotta tell you it's a little enraging to sit there and listen to you try to insult my intelligence by expecting that I believe your cockamamie memoirs of the ER.****** FATHER DIED LAST NIGHT TAMI!!!!! I know you asked Candace to leave before you knew, but I also heard you say "so, can I still go home?" RIGHT after she broke the news to us! Nice, real nice! That was THE worst example of not caring for others that I have ever seen. It's alllll about Tamilee isn't it? It just HAS to be! Today was obviously my breaking point with you.I'm done! You're ridiculous and you pissed me off badly today. I don't care what you think of this letter and I don't care who you tell. I also don't care to hear any lies about why you left or what happened after you did because guess what? You'll never change and you always lie or GROSSLY stretch the truth to sap sympathy from others and its disguisting!!!Let there be NO confusion as to why my remaining 6 days of work will be NECESSARY bank conversations only with you...provided you actually show up to work. Wouldn't THAT be a miracle!?!?!?!You want attention? Try getting it the REAL way, by smartening up, growing up, and getting a spine!